My PAINFUL Break Up Story (Animated)

My PAINFUL Break Up Story (Animated)

– [Narrator] I’m gonna share with you my personal break-up story,
so let’s get into it. (dramatic rumble) When I was in the 10th grade
I met this beautiful girl named Nicky and I remember
she had long brown hair, dark brown eyes, she had
one of the warmest smiles that you could ever imagine. She really was the whole
package, she was smart, athletic, funny and the only reason
why I was even talking to her in the first place was
because she was my brother’s girlfriend’s best friend. And I didn’t make a
move on her at that time because I had no
self-esteem or confidence. So I just placed myself
in the friend zone. I remember during that
first month of school so many guys wanted her but I remember two guys in particular who
really, really liked her. And they were the captains
of both the rugby team and the rowing team. And after she got to know
them she eventually ended up choosing the captain of the rowing team. And this guy was tall, he was a senior, he had blonde hair and blue eyes. He was a stereotypical good-looking guy. And during their relationship
Nicky and I became better and better friends
and she would tell me all the things that she didn’t
like about Mr Blue Eyes. Like how he wasn’t very caring,
he wasn’t really that funny and he just wasn’t that
great of a guy overall. And he also really didn’t
like how much she was talking to me, which I honestly
don’t really blame him for, I really was playing that
stereotypical guy friend who, you know, obviously secretly liked her. But after a couple of months
the novelty of Mr Blue Eyes wore off, and she broke up with him. And throughout this time her
and I became closer and closer but just as friends. And I usually don’t really
like the fairytale stories like in movies where the
shy friend somehow ends up with the attractive girl,
but the more time we spent together the more we both
started to care for one another. And eventually she started
to get feelings for me, so I somehow, some way got
out of the friend zone. But despite the very
obvious signs of attraction that she was giving off I still
was a very unconfident kid and I simply was not able
to make a move on her. I didn’t even know what making
a move entailed at that time. So she was the one who
ended up making a move on me and this move took place
on December 31st of 2009 over MSN Messenger. “Mitch, I have something to tell you.” “What is it?” “I cannot really tell you over messenger.” “Uh, yes you can, just type it in.” “It’s three words.” “Is it, I love you?” “It’s I love you, and I
have for a long time.” And that is how we started dating, over MSN Messenger in 2009. And the next day we met up
and we went on our first official date. And from that day forward we
were basically inseparable. And for the next three years
we shared a lot of experiences together, we supported each
other as competitive athletes, we were there for each
other when tragedy struck, we had a lot of first times
together, and we would even talk about our futures. Like, we would sit there and
talk about marriage, kids, living together, and it
all just way too intense for a high-school relationship. Nicky was also a very talented
rower and she was offered many full-ride scholarships
to go to schools in the United States, which
was kind of a problem for us because I was planning on
going to school in Canada. And I remember at one point
she actually offered to stay in Victoria for our
relationship and to go to school with me, and as much as I did want this I knew she didn’t really want that. So I actually encouraged her
to go away because I knew that is what was best for her. (dramatic rumble) And it’s now at this point
in the story where things start to get a little interesting
and much, much more juicy. (dramatic rumble) Just before summer began, she
committed to going to school in the United States which
meant we were about to embark on the long-distance relationship. And something that I need
to mention is that Nicky had this friend who was also a
rower and his name was Liam. And Liam kind of played
a similar role as I did in the beginning of the story,
as being in the friend zone. But the difference between
him and I was that Liam would try to actively break
us apart because he was really into her and he really didn’t like me. So when Liam found out about
us trying to do long-distance he saw that as an opportunity
to pounce on our relationship. And the reason why I know this is because I did something that
I’m really not proud of and it’s something that
I’m pretty hesitant to even bring up because, you know,
it’s pretty embarrassing. But I guess this is me
just being 100% transparent with you guys. So, this is what happened. One day, Nicky and I were
sitting beside each other on my bed and I see that
her phone was buzzing a lot. And I look over at it and I
saw all these long paragraphs. So I say to her, “Jeez,
who’s writing, like, this “long essay to you?” And she says, “Oh, nothing,
it’s just rowing stuff.” And she really quickly puts the phone away but as she was doing that I
could see that the messages were from Liam. And then once she put her
phone away she started to act really weird and distant and quiet. And I had known her
for long enough to know when something was wrong, and
something was definitely wrong and she wouldn’t tell me what it is. When Nicky left my house I
did something very shameful and I logged onto her Facebook account to see what was going on. And this is when something
absolutely crazy happened. Keep in mind, this is in
2011 and Facebook was still kind of new, and there were
still a few bugs on the website. When I logged onto her Facebook account she was also logged in and
I could see that she was in the middle of a conversation with Liam. But the weird part was that I could see everything that she was doing. So, imagine you are watching a
livestream of your girlfriend on Facebook and you could
see who she’s writing with, you could see where she’s clicking. You could see absolutely everything. But before I could really
see what they were writing she clicks out of the conversation,
goes to the chat history of her messages with Liam and deletes the entire conversation. And then 10 minutes later
I get a text from Nicky saying, “I need to talk
to you about something, “are you free tomorrow?” (dramatic rumble) And when I read that text
my heart sank, it was like my sixth sense was
telling me that something really bad was about to happen. I said, “Okay, meet me at 11 a.m.” So the next day comes
around and I’m sitting on the bench at my park waiting for her, and I was just trying to
prepare myself for the worst, and then all of a sudden
I see her car pull up and the moment she got out of the car and made eye-contact with
me she bursts into tears. Like, I’m talking, tears
are rolling down her face. Her face is swollen and
then she runs up to me and gives me a big hug and
neither of us said anything for a long time. So after we both had calmed down a bit I asked her what was going on. And she told me that she
had come to break up with me and now that she was there
with me she couldn’t do it. And she said to me that she
wasn’t even sure even if she wanted to do it, which
made it even more clear that certain people, or a certain someone, was convincing her to do it. I’m not gonna go into too much detail about our conversation but the end result was Nicky not knowing what she wanted and we both were just really confused. After a few days of talking
we ended up deciding to stay together and to try long-distance. But after that day at that park something really
interesting happened to me. When she told me that she
was thinking of breaking up with me, the thought of a
future that didn’t involve her was planted inside my brain. And over the next few months
that seed started to grow. Back then, I had this
huge fear of losing Nicky and being alone, we
both had relied so much on each other for our
positive emotions, like love and happiness, and I think
we both were really scared that we wouldn’t be able
to find someone better if we broke up, and this was
especially a problem for me. But when my fear of being
alone and losing her became a reality I realized
that it wasn’t as bad as I thought. Now, of course I was
still really upset and sad and probably borderline
depressed at this time. But I was still alive and
breathing, and I think a lot of people today are scared that they’re not going to be able to go on and live their life if
they lose a certain person. Most people today get into
relationships based on fear. We fear the thought of being alone or we fear the thought
of being 40 years old and being that weird,
older person at that bar still looking for love. And we fear this so much
that most of us end up settling for someone who we
may not even be the right match for, or maybe we’ll get to the
arbitrary age of, say, 30 and then we decide it’s time to get married. And we just stay with the
person we are with at that time because it’s convenient. In my video about how I became popular I briefly talked about
taking responsibility for your emotions. If you are not experiencing
happiness, love and self-worth from just being by yourself
then finding a partner is not going to solve this. It could give you a temporary
happiness, maybe even as long as five or ten years,
but those toxic, dependent roots will still remain inside you. So if you’re still watching
this, ask yourself, why do I want a relationship? Or if you’re already with
someone ask yourself, why am I with this person? And be really honest with
yourself, because I really do believe you can’t
have a great relationship if it’s based around fear. If you wanna learn how
to get over a breakup then click the link on the
screen to my worst breakup video and I’ll see ya there.


100 thoughts on “My PAINFUL Break Up Story (Animated)”

  • You yes you!!! Listen, 2 month ago, my girlfriend broke up with me. And yes, i know how your feeling, i know it's

    indescribably terrible. After 2 month of not believing people that it will get better, it got better 😀 and you will feel better too, no matter how complicated or incomprehensible your Breakup was.

    I didn't wanted to live anymore, and the thing that helped me the most was to talk to other people, who are in the same situation that I was in.

    Talking really helps, and if you do not care that my English isn't that great then you can always just text me to talk to me.

    What a beautiful thing it is, to be able to stand tall and say, " I fell apart, and I survived"

    If you want to talk to someone: Thats me on instagram: daniel05021999 !!!! <3

  • There are some things wrong in this video, especially the final minute. I have been alone my whole life and trust me, you have no idea what that is like.

  • I just got out of a 2 and a half year relationship she was my highschool sweetheart you know you dont always stay with them but i thought we could make it but she broke up with me 3 time before i broke up with her but all those times she always asked for us to get back the third time we broke up because i asked her not to talk to a guy i knew about our relationship because i knew how this guy was and she said she will but a week ago we were going to go eat and she left her phone in the car and i was just curious about it so i checked it and happened to find out she was still talking to him and went out to eat with him without letting me know so i told her what i did and she got mad and she said she was getting bored and stuff and i always ask do you want to go somewhere like bowling skating mall or just go out to get tacos even lets go out of town but she would always say no but i will try to persuade her but still didnt work but i ended our relationship and she kept callijg me trying to apologize saying sorry for keeping secrets and i just in my mind thinking how did she have the courage but it all over now and i am stuck waiting to go in to the military and she is now in college i wish her the best but she was my only friend and now i am alone

  • Now, we are in the same situation. It's been nearly 12 years that we are in relationship.
    We both still love each other so much but there was some happened in our life that we might not be together again.
    And we ? know that we can't live without each other.
    It is literally very hard decision to take. I am pretty sure that I can carry on my life with out him. And hoping that he wants to give a final chance to our relationship ?
    I am nothing without him and I know that he is nothing without me.

  • Thanks for sharing this. I feel like Liam deserved a good kicking and that his interference in the relationship was the biggest problem. I also think it’s good that you were able to reevaluate your dependency on your partner and thereby address your self-esteem. Liam though…he deserved a couple of black eyes and a good old fashioned ‘f*** off you interfering c***, find your own f***ing girlfriend’ ?

  • I have mojour anxiety and I friendzone myself to this girl named aleiah and I have known her for 3 years now and we have so much in common but I’m too anxious dm me on Instagram @ryderthememes for any tips

  • Phillipititi Katznosi says:

    My grilfriend broke up with me and she said she is still loving me, but she thinks it would be better for both of us to break up… what does that mean..?

  • I've done the log into friend account before I felt pretty bad but they didnt say anything terrible also dont worry I've been single for 2,3 years now it's pretty lonely

  • lol i can relate to this vid alil haha…. I live in Canada while my ex moved to US to study… I broke up the day before his flight because of a message "i will stay but if a good one comes i will not let her go i wish you do the same thing too" i died for sec lol …. there i realized i was never love in the first place but only liked. This was the guy who can't afford to buy cooking oil but an engineer and pursuing PHD in US… facepalm LDR doesnt really works well, hope brings more pain too weak for it.

  • Smartness is important in a relationship. I found out my wife was cheating through the help of Patrick who helped me clone my wife’s cell phone and i got access to all her text, Facebook and WhatsApp without touching it. All i did was share her number with Hacker Polone. and I was able to access her phone while she was away cheating in Canada. You can contact this great Hacker Polone Via email cyberhackpros @ gmail . Com or Text and speak to him directly on phone or WhatsApp +15182900093 Thank me later.

  • I hope Liam gets scratched in the face by an angry cat, then a bottle of hand sanitizer gets poured on the scratch marks on Liam's face.

  • PLEASE READ!!You re not ugly.Girls are doesnt flirt ugly guys and ugly guys knows it.You re standart.So you re not Handsome or ugly.Girls are flirt with you for their ego and preparing for dating.When they saw more Handsome guy than you and if this Guy flirt with her she leaves you.

  • My big in the fraternity has this friend and I met her through him. At first I thought they were a thing but she said they were just friends. She was the one who liked me first so I just went along with it since she made the move first. I'd go to her house and we'd go one some dates for the next 5 months but our fraternity formal came along and I asked her. She said yes but the fraternity refused to let me take her because they feared she would cause drama with other guys. The head my my chapter told me this and also said some mean things about her. I grudgingly didn't really stick up for her and when I told her she couldn't go to formal by the fraternity she was very upset and angry with me and the fraternity. She called me a pussy. She drank herself sick that night and she refused to let me in her house to see if she was ok. A couple weeks go by and I had no date for the formal so I just didn't go. She texts me back saying she's ok now and that we should try dating again. By june I was finished with my college degree and we live in different states so we each saw each other another time. We hugged and kissed but things seemed like they were left indifferent. She apparently got exposed sleeping with her ex by a friend of hers and when I saw that I was broken. She had also deleted pictures of me and her on her instagram. Has she moved on from me totally, is she still wanting to be friends, or does she still deeply care about me?

  • Renz Rafael Tunacao says:

    I have a best friend and i have this biggest fear that i will lose her she always be there for me when am depress she make me work on myself also me and her promise each other to never lose each other she the one who keeps me going and she the only person knows how i feel am great spending time with her i always have this dream that i wanted to take to the japan cause she wanted to go there so i wanted to take her to japan best friend forever :3

  • The end of this video got me, I just got out of a 1.5y relationship. Before the relationship I was so unhappy with myself, so unconfident and found nothing good from my life. She was the first good looking girl that ever spoke to me, I jumped on it too fast. We fell in love but my past quickly caught up to me, after a year I was having trouble being happy with her, talking to her, and trusting her. It was nothing she did but I got distant from her, started to lose trust in her.

    She cheated on me last week, she regretted it so much and told me she did it. I need to focus on myself instead of trying to fix my problems by filling it with girls, I will only hurt them and myself.

    Don’t get me wrong, she was wrong for cheating on me and doesn’t deserve me, but I know I wasn’t treating her right. She was too weak to break up with me and cheated on me.

    I am taking this time to work on myself, use all my extra energy to focus on me. Once I can safely say that I am confident in myself I’ll find someone else.

  • Sound Engineer Звукоинженер says:

    Love, Romantic Relationships are all about illusion, they don't exist… Put yourself in the centre of life for your life and goals , not for women.. Don't be sheep in the society..

  • I've had a 7 month long distance relationship like this before.. but i am the nicky. In that year, i was put under alot of stress, pressure and alot of things in my life changing all at once. He was dealing with his own problems in the meanwhile. But, i couldnt live without him, it just hurt too much. It resulted to me not knowing what i wanted for a couple of months. Midway the relationship, it all became toxic because at one moment, he would be mad and tell me all about it, and the other moment, i would get mad and put it out on him. It was all painful, but we stayed together bc we both believed that it would get better sooner or later. I hoped, and believed this strongly in particular. He put an end to it a few days ago and told me we would still stay friends, but I just learn from my mistakes with him and want to make it better. Now, he's doing all the things he promised to do to/with me… To/with another girl. It hurts alot, bc i'd still take him back and forgive him. Someone like you from adele describes it perfectly. You're story resembles mine alot… And it hurts. We had alot of good times..

  • To be hit with the realization that the girl that you wanted to marry wouldn't be the one, really breaks the heart into a million pieces.

  • I just went though a breakup, I think you are right about the whole thing, I'm scared i won't find another, it's based off of fear, and I had the same type of thing happen with me, as it happened to you in this breakup. Like if you've been through these times ?

  • When u placed your self in friendzone and girl had another guy, so u trying to get her break up with him so u can get into his place ???

  • Why I want a relationship? Because I want to have a purpose of waking up every day just to see that person!! Why i'm whit this person? Because shes the only one I look at then smile

  • This video has really helped me a lot and 1 important thing i learnt , was I can choose to be the person I want not based on my relationship

  • Blue:da F u doing
    Me:does she hates me
    Blue:oh H yup
    ME:'goes to my crush' hey……
    My crush:…..
    ME:she hates me

  • Don't feel bad to watching her Facebook. Women do this time with zero guilt. But more importantly, relationships, (mostly for men) are investments. Expensive investments of time, energy and alot of work. Women don't typically care about this. So it's you that need to look out for your investments if there's a sign it could be in danger. Always protect your investments.

  • i’ve been thinking a lot. And i thought about some deep stuff but one of them was, What are the 3 things that cause the downfall of every protagonists in every movie? Drugs, Money and Love. From now on, i’m done. done with girls and being the average guy. i’m gonna make something outta myself and i wish y’all will too.

  • looks thicc……LOL…..yeah I moved on….Single at 30.still single at 67…..not thought of ANY relationship anymore. I got my kids and Grandkids to take care of that.

  • This is my story, i fell so deep for this girl and she noticed it and started playing with my emotions and always knew i was gonna come back and say sorry. We had a rough 3 weeks, so i decided to give her some space. After about 5 days i contacted her and she says she wanna breakup again. Thinking i was gonna come begging for her to feel good for herself. On the contrary i decided to respect her decision and accepted the breakup. Took her by suprise. She gets very mad and we both have an arguement.
    Now after about a day i start feeling so guilty. U know its the guilt that drives u crazy, making u feel like a loser and u lost something precious. So i started drowning in so much guilt, asking wheither i did something wrong within the 3weeks. Only to realise today after asking her wat i did wrong that, she thought i would come back and apologize to her and this time i didnt, because i didnt know what i had done and also i have been apologizing to this girl for a while. So now after realizing that she wanted to play another begging game for a while. I feel so much better that i have no guilt anymore. I actually even dont want to get back in the relationship anymore. So pls ask yourself if u feeling guilty about the breakup and answer that question. But make sure u let your him or her know that, u are not the one with the guilt and that they made a big mistake leaving u and thinking u gonna come begging. Its such a immediate relieve. Hope it helps someone

  • Spazzmat Studios says:

    The Facebook “bug” part is bullsh*t. Mark Zuckerburg wouldn’t let his website get bad and misused.

    Totally not

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