Blended Life Social Media MASTER BAITERS

Blended Life Social Media MASTER BAITERS


hey everyone Eric here from blended life
and yes you did read that title right social media master Bader’s and what I
mean by that is have you ever been on social media and let’s say your ex or
your exes spouse has baited you in by posting I don’t know false narrative or
a little piece of your life that’s maybe misconstrued a little bit it’s not quite
the truth and or maybe just completely far off from the truth I know we’ve all
been there right so what this usually does to us is it makes us so angry
inside that you just want to rage I I mean I used to feel like this all the
time I’m sure most of you can relate because at some point in time we go
through that so what I’ve learned to do is actually rather than hopping back on
social media and flipping out or posting something that’s gonna hurt the other
party and then all sudden it escalates and we’re just in this major just battle
just angry at each other and then all sudden the kids are stuck between each
household because they have to go to mom’s house and they have to go to dad’s
house and now they’re just living in this like negative energy environment
because everyone’s mad at each other and we’re always talking about each other
rather than doing that what I have learned to do is actually turn that
around and rather than posting I will not post I will say on those emails I
will slow everything down and I will just give short answers that aren’t rude
don’t ever be rude on your returning of you know like a like a comment or an
email or something or even a phone call or text but what I will do is I will
turn that around and I’ll kind of kill them with kindness what that does is it
softens well first of all it softens your heart but it starts to soften their
heart because you’re not by you know you’re not biting in or buying into
their baiting you know so they’re seeing that it’s not working it’s not working
on your end because you’re not letting it affect you and what that does is
totally start softening the tone on both sides
and before you know it you guys are actually talking
a little bit nicer to one another and you start co-parenting a little bit
better now I know this doesn’t work in every situation this has worked great in
my situation and now co-parent very well with my ex but being around people that
constantly air out their laundry on social media usually that just means
that this person is not happy with their own life you know they’re not happy with
the way things are going they’re always watching everyone else and they’re kind
of doing that insta stalking thing or the Facebook stalking or their friends
are doing the Facebook stalking and all that does it just makes you feel
terrible so if you can opt out of that you know maybe tell your friends like
hey listen I don’t care what my ex is doing I don’t want to hear what they’re
doing you know if it fit fit or if it involves me you know where it’s gonna
affect me like I’m gonna get hurt by something physically and I’m not talking
about them running their mouths but say you know they’re out to get me somehow
or my kids are in harm’s way then let me know but if it’s just gossip you know
and stuff that they’re doing or stuff that doesn’t directly affect me in a way
that’s gonna you know alter my life I don’t want to know about it so ask your
friends to stop you stop and before you know it like you’re just gonna forget
about that other side and all you’re gonna do is co-parent when it’s
necessary so this has really helped me I hope it helps you if it does hit that
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